I Turn Dads’ “Sorry, I’ll be more patient next time” Into Reality

Retrain your reactions with a martial arts combo: Catch. Question. Release.

Built for dads, by a girl dad with a solid product design background.See My LinkedIn

My name is Allen Xu. I’m a Muay Thai practitioner, a critical thinking mentor, and a certified meditation teacher.

I broke free from legacy parenting, rebuilt my reactions for my daughter, Cami, and saved my marriage.

Legacy Parenting Gone Wrong

Tough love is how parents become our #1 enemies.

My narcissistic single mom blamed and humiliated me throughout my childhood and into my adulthood. As a result, I became tough on myself and the people around me—especially my family.

Legacy Parenting Gone Wrong

Tough love is how parents become our #1 enemies.

My narcissistic single mom blamed and humiliated me throughout my childhood and into my adulthood.

As a result, I became tough on myself and the people around me—especially my family.

“I wish my family would stop/never argue again and stay together forever.”

— My daughter, Cami

Living Testimonial

i Broke the cycle of passing it down

I changed the way I react to my family. My daughter and wife are more relaxed around me.

This isn't a marketing slogan, and the proof isn’t a certificate.

It's Actually Daughter Approved

"… ever since you've noticed the way you've been acting with your anger issues…the family had been breaking apart…5 years later, we're still here in this family and I want to thank you for everything you've done."

– Who's Your Super Hero?

2 weeks. You're the only client

We deep dive into your parenting style, retrain your legacy reactions, and turn your promise into reality.

No Time Limit

8:30 AM – 10:00 PM ET

Each session has no time limit within the time windows. We stay in until the cycle ends. One trigger at a time.

Scheduled 1:1

Each session focuses on a moment where you wished you could’ve reacted to your kid differently.

We start by getting you better at catching yourself before you lose it, then use critical thinking and Catch. Question. Release. (C.Q.R.) to find the root causes behind your triggers so you can finally release the anger, fear, disappointment, and resentment.

Sparring

I’ll say the words your kids say that make you snap and retrain your reactions.

Call Me

You're building a new muscle memory that overwrites your legacy reactions—it takes practice.

When the moment gets heated and you’re about to lose it, stop and call me—this is where I come in as your cornerman to dismantle your trigger in real time.

Daughter-Approved
Father Training

$17,550

What to expect

What happens after you book?

We do one free session (up to 90-minutes) and work a real trigger together. If it’s the right fit, you’ll get a written agreement from me covering dates, payment, and what we both commit to before we start.

For questions or collaborations, email: CQR@AllenXCornerman.com

©2026 AllenXCornerman LLC
©2026 AllenXCornerman LLC